Ripples on the Pond (aka the ripple effect)

When originally written – this was a two part piece of prose.  I will do my best to combine the two pieces into one:

I had an experience recently which got me thinking about ripples in a pond, or the ripple effect we each have on untold persons lives.

I was walking to work and a gentleman walking the other direction says to me “Hey! You’re going the wrong way!” Confused I asked what he meant.  His response was that usually I get off the bus further down the road, in the direction I was headed.  I laughed and explained that I’d just moved so I was walking to work now rather than taking the bus.  We both laughed and went on our way.  The odd thing about this encounter is that I didn’t recognize this man.  I am usually a very observant person, I look at everyone, notice things about people such as faces, body language, behavior patterns, but this gentleman had me stymied! I knew from the conversation that he obviously rode the same bus as me quite frequently yet I had never noticed him.

This encounter got me thinking about all the people that we don’t notice whom we have an effect on.  It made me realize that my every action or even inaction is quite likely being observed by countless unknown people.  What a huge concept that is to absorb. 

I started thinking about my life as a whole, all the numbers of people that me living my life has had an impact on.  Some I know about, some I dont.  This made me begin to wonder if the impact I have on others is a GOOD impact or a BAD impact.  Most likely it’s both.  It also made me wonder how big of an impact I’ve had on people I don’t know, or even those I do.  This thought process made me want to be a better person, be more friendly, more open, more outgoing, more loving.

Next I started thinking about all the people who’ve had an impact on me, whether they knew it or not, whether they even knew I existed or not.  We all walk through this life most often absorbed in our own little bubble worlds, unaware of those around us except our most intimate friends and family members.  And yet, like bubbles in a glass, these bubble worlds of ours colide with others constantly, destroying some bubbles while creating other ones.

I’m grateful for this new heightened awareness I gained as a result of my encounter and will strive to be more aware of the effect I have on others.

After writing the orginal piece I had some additional thoughts about which I wanted to share.  I was speaking with a friend last night about friends and groups of friends and how they interact with each other, and it made me think again about the ripples in the pond or bubbles in a glass analogy. 

Take for example my circle of friends.  As we move through life and interact with each other our circles of friends collide with other circles of friends.  Sometimes this can destroy existing groups while at the exact same moment it can create new groups.

 This same effect can be seen on a global scale.  Civilizations meeting, colliding, in some cases entire civilizations are destroyed while in other cases entirely new civilizations are created.  Look at the native peoples in many lands when new explorers first come.  America is a perfectly prime example of this happening.

Interestingly enough the same effect can be seen on a universal scale as well!  Planets, comets, suns, and often times entire solar systems and galaxies are found to be colliding into each other, obliterating the existing systems and creating entirely new ones.

It seems to me this is actually a circle of birth, growth, interaction, death and re-birth.  It happens over and over again from a very miniscule scale to a universal scale and is fascinating to me.


About Ms Fihaki

Thanks so much for checking out my blog! I’m supposed to write about me – who I am as a person and I really don’t see the sense in that considering that when you read my posts you will learn more about me as a person than you would from any 500 word statement I could make. I will however play by the rules – just this once. I’m 36 years young. I consider myself a strong independant and beautiful woman (hey! I wrote about that! Check it out!). I’m single and love it. Just over a year ago I made some serious lifestyle changes which include eliminating alcohol from my diet, being more physically active, eating healthier and daily working on my spirituality. One of the things which has happened as a result of these lifestyle changes is that I’ve gained a level of clarity I never knew was possible. With this clarity comes the realization that my words affect the lives of those around me. I’ve always been much better at writing than at speaking. If I can affect people the way I do from speaking, just imagine the effect I can have with the written word! I had been blogging about my secret life doing sensual massage – but I wasn’t getting a lot of traffic or interraction from that blog. Upon the suggestion of several friends I decided to start this – my public blog. My hope is that this will allow my readers to interact with me, a real live human being and that together we can create a ripple effect of positivity throughout the universe! (yea I dream big – it’s a must!) Anywho – I sincerely hope you enjoy the things I have to say and interractions are welcome and encouraged! Be Well!

Posted on September 13, 2012, in Prose and tagged , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: