Hatred – Written Oct, 2010

I was told last night that someone who barely knows me HATES me.  When I asked why I was told that it’s because my laugh is annoying…huh…okay?

HATE? Hate is such a strong word…strong emotion…I can honestly say I don’t believe that I HATE anyone.  I may have disgust, pity, revulsion, but not HATE…and for someone to have such a strong emotion over something so inconsequential is so funny and sad to me.  Mostly sad though.

I feel bad for this person and others like her who go through their lives being angry, bitter and full of hate for no apparant reason.  In my experience, people are this way because of disappointments in their own life which they have been unable to come to terms with and move on from.  I’ve found that hatred, anger bitterness breed more of the same.  In the same way that love, kindness, sympathy, empathy breed more of the same.

If this person had taken one moment to get to know me as a person rather then make a judgement based on the limited interactions we’d had, they would realize that I am a good person, I am full of love and happiness and kindness…but no..that will never happen, not with this type of person.  They will continue to go through their lives angry, bitter and full of resentment.  They will continue to have a sad and lonely existence because they cannot see beyond their own pain and disappointment.

Thank you God, Universe, whatever the higher power that is which allows me to rise above suct contempt and continue to live my life the way I choose.  And thank you for the forethought to not make such rash judgements about others.  My hope is that more people in this world live their lives the way I do.  That would make for a much happier human race.


About Ms Fihaki

Thanks so much for checking out my blog! I’m supposed to write about me – who I am as a person and I really don’t see the sense in that considering that when you read my posts you will learn more about me as a person than you would from any 500 word statement I could make. I will however play by the rules – just this once. I’m 36 years young. I consider myself a strong independant and beautiful woman (hey! I wrote about that! Check it out!). I’m single and love it. Just over a year ago I made some serious lifestyle changes which include eliminating alcohol from my diet, being more physically active, eating healthier and daily working on my spirituality. One of the things which has happened as a result of these lifestyle changes is that I’ve gained a level of clarity I never knew was possible. With this clarity comes the realization that my words affect the lives of those around me. I’ve always been much better at writing than at speaking. If I can affect people the way I do from speaking, just imagine the effect I can have with the written word! I had been blogging about my secret life doing sensual massage – but I wasn’t getting a lot of traffic or interraction from that blog. Upon the suggestion of several friends I decided to start this – my public blog. My hope is that this will allow my readers to interact with me, a real live human being and that together we can create a ripple effect of positivity throughout the universe! (yea I dream big – it’s a must!) Anywho – I sincerely hope you enjoy the things I have to say and interractions are welcome and encouraged! Be Well!

Posted on March 28, 2013, in Uncategorized and tagged , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 1 Comment.

  1. I recently had to humble myself and apologize to the person who this post is about. I was willing to admit when I had been in the wrong. It was a very emotional experience for both of us. I was happy to see that we had both grown as human beings and were both willing to forgive and move forward in a more positive fashion.

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