Beauty Is In The Eye Of The Beholder

When I was growing up, I was made fun of a lot.  I had super curly hair, thick thighs, big hips, small boobs, a gap tooth…the list goes on and on.  For years I’ve struggled with self-image issues because of how I allowed others to make me feel.

I’ve come to understand that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, and I behold myself to be beautiful.  As I’ve changed my self-image, believe it or not, my appearance has changed.  I am told on a daily basis (and not just by friends and family) what a beautiful person I am.  I turn heads when I walk down the street (although that could be because I’m singing at the top of my lungs I suppose).

When I look in the mirror I no longer see the ugly duckling of my childhood.  I see my true and beautiful self.  The beauty of my soul is reflected in the beauty of my face.

We are all beautiful.  Find your inner beauty today.

Real Beauty Sketches


About Ms Fihaki

Thanks so much for checking out my blog! I’m supposed to write about me – who I am as a person and I really don’t see the sense in that considering that when you read my posts you will learn more about me as a person than you would from any 500 word statement I could make. I will however play by the rules – just this once. I’m 36 years young. I consider myself a strong independant and beautiful woman (hey! I wrote about that! Check it out!). I’m single and love it. Just over a year ago I made some serious lifestyle changes which include eliminating alcohol from my diet, being more physically active, eating healthier and daily working on my spirituality. One of the things which has happened as a result of these lifestyle changes is that I’ve gained a level of clarity I never knew was possible. With this clarity comes the realization that my words affect the lives of those around me. I’ve always been much better at writing than at speaking. If I can affect people the way I do from speaking, just imagine the effect I can have with the written word! I had been blogging about my secret life doing sensual massage – but I wasn’t getting a lot of traffic or interraction from that blog. Upon the suggestion of several friends I decided to start this – my public blog. My hope is that this will allow my readers to interact with me, a real live human being and that together we can create a ripple effect of positivity throughout the universe! (yea I dream big – it’s a must!) Anywho – I sincerely hope you enjoy the things I have to say and interractions are welcome and encouraged! Be Well!

Posted on April 27, 2013, in Health and Wellness and tagged , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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